Since everyone has been requesting for love and relationship articles as a follow-up on my previous entry, 100 Guy Secrets Every Woman Must Know, I’m very proud to share this entry that my good friend, Anton Amoncio, originally wrote – for all the ladies out there!
Who of you didn’t encountered heartbreaks at all? We all did, even I did. Some women can really be nuts, crazy, unreasonable and stupid when it comes to love. *chuckles* Then again, that’s what makes love remarkable and mysterious. It’s the fact that it’s beyond logic and reasoning alone. A lot of women tend to forget a thing or two when it comes to love, relationships and dating.
So, here’s what Anton Amoncio has to say to all the ladies out there…
So here’s the thing. Not all men are the same. Some are there just to play you around like a video game and others are rooting for a good relationship.
If you want to be treated with reverence, read the following.
1.) If you want men to stop playing you, stop bitching around.
2.) Don’t expect pity from people. The so-called “Sympathy Card” doesn’t exist anymore. Survival of the fittest. You slip and break your ankle, you stand up by yourself.
3.) If you, yourself a whore expects to bump into a decent man who drives a Mercedes Benz and earns a 100 grand a month, then stop dreaming. No decent man would date someone like you. He would go for a woman that’s equally capable of doing the things that he could. (not for every woman…well some)
4.) Men want women that they could take home to the folks.
5.) Boys love to date girls that are easy to get. Real men love to go through all the trouble/s just to take a decent woman out.
6.) No gentleman would ever think of dumping an amazing woman. It’s a one-time investment and there’s no turning back. Only an idiot would.
7.) No intentions of contradicting the points I’ve raised above but shit happens. There are times that even the “almost perfect woman” gets played around by some brainless bastard. Another thing that makes a woman great is the way she gathers all her wits, rise from her fall, ponder on all the things she has done wrong, wear a smile then move forward.
8.) A woman who doesn’t have self-control, self-esteem and self-worth would only get a chance to date men that are in it for sex, desperate, disgusting, no room for growth, weak and pathetic.
9.) Sex is never a past-time. If you throw your wad around for men to feast on then congratulations! You’ve just made yourself a city-whore! It would be hard to build yourself up again. So before you do this, try to save yourself!
10.) Show men how truly amazing you are. Try not to put make-up on before leaving your house, wear something simple because that smile of yours is already enough to turn us men head over heels.
11.) Never settle for less if you can always have the best.
12.) The only person that knows you best is YOURSELF!
13.) Be the woman that you want your son in the future to fall in-love with.
14.) You may be judged, criticized and abused a couple of times. Don’t let those things mold you to something you’re not. In fact, you have the capacity to prove them wrong and rub it all on their faces.
15.) When a couple of men break your heart, don’t lose hope. Those experiences should definitely make you stronger and to know what NOT to do next time.
16.) Never lose hope.
Lost hope -> loss of self-confidence / self – esteem -> desperation -> loss of self-control -> vulnerability -> easy prey to assholes
17.) Drinking more than the usual / doing drugs or things that would cause self-destruction is never the key to finding geniune joy. True joy is found when you realize your true potential. Rise up, walk it off, smile and laugh at your mistake/s. Getting drunk or high would only ease the pain temporarily and would only fuck your system up in the long run.
18.) You don’t beg or ask for respect. You earn it.
19.) All women are perfect in their own unique ways.
20.) Your beauty inside matters most. Your outer beauty is just part of the package
ONE LOVE, from my heart to yours.
I hope this entry be treated as a reminder to all the ladies to always remember, you are worth it and you deserve the best in life. You deserve to be treated right, to be loved and to be pleased.
True love happens – it’s never rushed and it always takes two people to work out a relationship – not one, but two.
I hope everyone enjoyed this blog update. Feel free to comment your thoughts, opinions and if you still have some time, please share this to your friends, too. =)